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墮落罪惡的人性(2)-嫉妒 (Envy/Jealousy)

  • 嫉妒一种极想排除或破坏别人的优越地位的心理倾向。当看到别人比自己强时,心里就产生一种包含着憎恶与焦虑、羞耻与自咎、愤怒与怨恨、敌意与报复、猜疑恐惧与失望消沉、屈辱与虚荣、伤心与悲哀的复杂情感。
  • 嫉妒者不能容忍别人超过自己,害怕别人得到自己无法得到的,自己办不到的事,得不到的东西,别人也不要办成,得到。天生的身材、容貌和聪明才智,社会的荣誉、地位、成就、财产,都容易成为嫉妒的对象。
  • 嫉妒心理是具有等级性的。只有处于同一竞争领域的两个竞争者才会有嫉妒心理和嫉妒行为。人只会嫉妒与自己处于同一竞争领域,而表现比自己强的人,不会嫉妒与自己不在一个领域的人,或在同一领域里比自己弱的人。
  • 嫉妒也可以称之为优越感被破坏后的心理反应。人只有在自己有优越感时,并被别人超越才会产生嫉妒,如果不具有优越感他只会自卑和羡慕,而不会嫉妒。
  • 每个人先天都具有一种强烈的自我为尊的意识,即自己是最重要的,最强的。 当有人不把自己当成是最重要的人,自己也承认自己确实不如人时,人也都会表现出自卑、伤心、不安、焦虑、烦躁以及恐惧等情绪。
  • 嫉妒内潜着对他人幸福的破坏倾向
  • 一个人嫉妒在那里,也意味着他的自卑感、自尊心和目标在那里。

马可福音-Mark 7:20-23
祂又说,从人里面出来的,那才污秽人。因为从里面,就是从人心里,发出恶念、淫乱、偷窃、凶杀、奸淫、贪婪、邪恶、诡诈、淫荡、嫉妒、谤讟、狂傲、愚妄;这一切的恶,都是从里面发出来,且能污秽人。
And He said, That which goes out of the man, that defiles the man. For from within, out of the heart of men, proceed evil reasonings, fornications, thefts, murders, Adulteries, covetousness, wickedness, deceit, licentiousness, envy, blasphemy, arrogance, foolishness. All these wicked things proceed from within and defile the man.

罗马书-Romans 1:28-31
他们既然不以认识神为美,神就任凭他们存可弃绝的心思,行那些不合宜的事,充满了各样不义、邪恶、贪婪、恶毒,满了嫉妒、凶杀、争竞、诡诈、毒恨;又是谗毁人的,背后说人的,憎恨神的,侮慢人的,狂傲的,自夸的,捏造恶事的,违背父母的,无知的,背约的,无亲情的,无怜悯的。
And even as they did not approve of holding God in their full knowledge, God gave them up to a disapproved mind, to do the things which are not fitting, Being filled with all unrighteousness, wickedness, covetousness, malice; full of envy, murder, strife, deceit, malignity; Whisperers, slanderers, hateful to God, insolent, arrogant, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents, Senseless, faithless, affectionless, merciless;

罗马书-Romans 13:13
行事为人要端正得体,好像在白昼;不可荒宴醉酒,不可纵欲淫荡,不可争竞嫉妒
Let us walk becomingly as in the day; not in reveling and drunkenness, not in fornication and licentiousness, not in strife and jealousy.

哥林多前书-1 Corinthians 3:3
因你们仍是属肉体的。因为在你们中间有嫉妒、争竞,你们岂不是属肉体,照着人的样子而行么?
For you are still fleshly. For if there is jealousy and strife among you, are you not fleshly and do you not walk according to the manner of man?

哥林多后书-2 Corinthians 12:20
我怕我来的时候,或许见到你们不合我所想要的,你们见到我也不合你们所想要的;又怕有争竞、嫉妒、恼怒、私图好争、诽谤、谗言、自高自大、混乱的事;
For I fear that perhaps when I come, I may find you not such as I wish, and I may be found by you not such as you wish; that perhaps there may be strife, jealousy, outbursts of anger, selfish ambitions, slanders, whisperings, demonstrations of being puffed up, tumults;

加拉太书-Galatians 5:19-21
肉体的行为,都是明显的,就是淫乱、污秽、邪荡、拜偶像、邪术、仇恨、争竞、忌恨、恼怒、私图好争、分立、宗派、嫉妒、醉酒、荒宴以及类似的事;关于这些事,我现在事先告诉你们,正如我先前说过的:行这样事的人,必不得承受神的国。
And the works of the flesh are manifest, which are such things as fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness, Idolatry, sorcery, enmities, strife, jealousy, outbursts of anger, factions, divisions, sects, Envyings, bouts of drunkenness, carousings, and things like these, of which I tell you beforehand, even as I have said before, that those who practice such things will not inherit the kingdom of God.

提摩太前书-1 Timothy 6:3-5
若有人教导的不同,不赞同健康的话,就是我们主耶稣基督的话,以及那合乎敬虔的教训,他是为高傲所蒙蔽,一无所知,却好问难,争辩言辞,由此就生出嫉妒、争竞、毁谤、恶意的猜疑,以及那败坏了心思,以敬虔为得利的门路,而失丧了真理之人无止境的争论。
If anyone teaches different things and does not consent to healthy words, those of our Lord Jesus Christ, and the teaching which is according to godliness, He is blinded with pride, understanding nothing, but is diseased with questionings and contentions of words, out of which come envy, strife, slanders, evil suspicions, Perpetual wranglings of men corrupted in mind and deprived of the truth, supposing godliness to be a means of gain.

提多书-Titus 3:3
因为我们从前也是无知、悖逆、受迷惑的,给各样的私欲和宴乐作奴仆,将生命时光耗费于恶毒和嫉妒,是可恨的,又是彼此相恨。
For we also were once foolish, disobedient, deceived, serving as slaves various lusts and pleasures, spending our lives in malice and envy, hateful, hating one another.

雅各书-James 3:14-16
但你们心里若怀着苦毒的嫉妒和私图好争,就不要再夸口,也不要再说谎抵挡真理了。这样的智慧,不是从上头下来的,乃是属地的、属魂的、出于鬼且像鬼的。因为何处有嫉妒和私图好争,何处就有扰乱和各样的坏事。
But if you have bitter jealousy and selfish ambition in your heart, do not boast and lie against the truth. This wisdom is not that which descends from above, but is earthly, soulish, demonic. For where jealousy and selfish ambition are, there disorder and every worthless practice are.

彼得前书-1Peter 2:1
所以要脱去一切的恶毒、和一切的诡诈、并伪善、嫉妒、以及一切毁谤的话,
Therefore putting away all malice and all guile and hypocrisies and envyings and all evil speakings,

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